Q&A

 

How do you know when a guy has interest in you?

 

When a guy Messages/IM/ Text… you a lot you can start getting the idea that he is interested in you. I'm not saying that will be the case for every guy, but remember that the guy that you least expect to have interest might be the one with the most interest.

 

How do you get a guy's attention?

 

To get his attention don't think you need to wear short shorts or anything of that sort... you know what I mean. When with him be yourself NEVER ever change for a guy. If he doesn't like you for who you truly are he doesn't deserve you. So yeah, bottom line be yourself and message/IM/Text him once in a while but don't be corny or cheesy. And when I say that I mean do go overboard trying to make jokes to make him laugh or tell him that he is cute and stuff.

Be a boss (guys like girls who are confident) – be nice but don't let your feelings show too much. If you show him you like him too much he will start being a show off about it like "ya I got her" and stuff. Don't show him that oyu are willing to do anything for him, even if you are, because he will end up just playing you or in some cases will treat you in a way that you do not deserve to be treated.

#1: don’t tell him show him.

Ladies my first piece of advice to you…
Don't take the first man that comes your way. You should not be in a rush to find "Love", let love find you. Don't worry about being single or looking like a loner, because those girls that fool around with every guy that comes their way they will be done with before you know it. The men they'll think is so in-love with them will make them feel like a princess steal their V-card and walk away. That every moment they'll be labeled easy
and the word will spread, don't think that a men will finish taking your goods and keep it a secret. That's just like laying a piece of cake in front a dog and expecting a bit not to be taken out of it, stupid and pointless. You will be respected by others as much as you respect yourself; sexting, flirting with more than one guys, cheating, ect… do you really believe they'll fall in-love with a girl that does that? Any of those things? Sweet cheeks they're just looking for some action, and if you're the one to give it to them you'll soon be labeled as well. No matter how much as guy may act like that's what he wants it never is. Sure they want some pleasure sometimes, you know what most of the times, but that's what he gets from the easy targets.
Well that's enough about self-respect, let's move on.
Like I said before don't take the first guy that gives you attention, wait for one that's different from all the others, wait for one that will truly make you happy. And I don't mean happy for a day or a month, I mean that happiness you feel inside of you just because you know he truly is there for you and that he leave won't you the first chance he gets. He will hold your hand and tell you all he feels before it's too late. But what you have to remember is to make him fight for you show him that you are a challenge and make sure he knows you're worth it. I'm not saying to do something corny like tell him "I'm worth it!" that's just…, well CORNY. Don't tell him anything, show him.